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Vigil Planning

Vigil planning by a death doula involves creating a tranquil and supportive environment for those approaching the end of life. This service focuses on ensuring that the individual's final hours are filled with comfort and dignity, offering compassionate companionship and practical support to both the dying person and their loved ones. Jen will coordinate logistics, facilitate meaningful rituals or ceremonies, and provide emotional guidance to honor each person's unique journey, fostering a space for reflection, closure, and heartfelt farewells.​

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Below are some suggestions for the types of explorations that the Vigil Planning Service can include. This service is not limited to these ideas. Please feel free to discuss any other suggestions you have around your needs when you schedule a strategy call with Jen.

Vigil Planning Can Include:

The Space

This death doula service meticulously plans the vigil by creating a serene space tailored to the dying person's preferences. We arrange the room to maximize comfort, ensuring the bed is positioned for optimal rest and surrounded by cherished objects that evoke peace and memories. Entering the space is deliberate, designed to maintain a calm atmosphere conducive to reflection and meaningful connection during this sacred time.

Interactions

Vigil planning revolves around prioritizing the dying person's wishes. Jen ensures the space reflects their preferences, from the layout and positioning of the bed to the placement of meaningful objects. This approach encourages a serene bedside atmosphere where communication is gentle and touch is offered as desired. Guided imagery and legacy work are tailored to their personal narrative, while rituals are conducted respectfully, honoring their spiritual beliefs and life journey.

The Atmosphere

Vigil planning is deeply personalized to honor the dying person's wishes. Jen incorporates their chosen music or soothing sounds, readings that resonate with them, and comforting scents or essential oils. Lighting is adjusted to create a calming ambiance, and nature elements such as plants or natural views are integrated as desired. Spirituality is respected and honored through rituals, prayers, or meditative practices that align with their beliefs, ensuring a meaningful and peaceful vigil experience.

Let's Talk, Dear One

If you would like to hear more about this service or any other services and/or see which one/s would be most helpful for you and your loved ones, please schedule a strategy call below.

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